Chinese Marriage in
Memory
By Xuefeng Pan
In my youth,
girl students are always shy when speaking to boy
students
The opposite condition was also true and lasts through my half period of
life
Marriages
between girls and boys were usually made possible by a
person,
Who makes a
careful and elegant comparison strictly based
upon the boy's
Girl's
personal and family's conditions, finalizing the evaluation of
match or not,
If matched
they will make serial things happen, such as
sending off
A letter of
appointment and giving money to
the girl's family for an engagement
This was the
real scenario remembered in my memory of making a
Chinese family
Luckily
though I experienced in my youth but never ever be affected by
it